Jan 18, 2012

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Another day, another dinner

Moar food. Oh yeah.

It was super challenging hold out until 5pm (aka appropriate dinner time) until I could pick up some food and then I had to fight the urge to get the unhealthy meal (calabrese pizza)

I compromised with myself and went with the quesadilla and veggies with strawberries and red curry chicken for lunch tomorrow (the expense report peeps must think I eat a LOT).

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Jan 18, 2012

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Wordless Wednesday: Brewmasters Dinner

Spoiler: This post isn’t really “wordless”.

Way back in November I bid on a gift certificate for a Brewmaster’s Dinner (4 courses paired with beer) and won. Unfortunately, the only dinner they’d let me attend was in the middle of busy season.

Given the craziness of yesterday, we debated whether or not we should attend. Would we be falling into old patterns? Or would talking in public help?

We were both tender; kept the subjects light; reaffirmed our agreement to be kind; decided on a nice word to say when we needed the kindness reminder (Muskrat); confirmed that we’re both committed to going to couples counseling before making a final decision.

My heart needed to walk in the door and have kitten cuddles and crawl into bed for a new day.

A day that hopefully means things will get better…

 

I’m going to do my best not to pretend that things are “perfect” and “okay” here, but I may not tell you everything, either, as I do need to respect the privacy of The Cowboy as we work through things.

I truly am humbled by every single comment, email, message and text message I received yesterday. Truly.

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